Got a call from
Kaffy last night, and she's going to be gone for awhile: After a series of TIAs, her
dad had another massive stroke, this time on the side of his brain that wasn't decimated during the first one. Long story short, he's been given the "It's a matter of time" stamp of horror that no child ever wants to hear about their parent, and she was hurrying up to Memphis for the wait.
Although I've been through this, I got nothing that'll make this easier for her, so if y'all have something, please send it along. And if you don't, give her a shout o'love anyway, because she could sure use one right now.
Thanks, man.
[UPDATE: Kaffy sent us all an e-mail; it's after the jump.]
Hi, everybody. Thank you all so much for all your
thoughts, prayers and good wishes. I am thrilled to
let you know that it seems to have worked.
By the time I got to the hospital last night (around
12:30--I drove like a bat out of hell), my dad was
awake, talking, and mostly aware of what was going on.
At least he was just as aware as he was before this
second stroke. He still has some problems with mental
issues, but it doesn't seem any worse than it was
before.
The doctor here wants to transfer Daddy to St. Francis
Hospital in Memphis for more "aggressive" treatment,
and they will be doing that ASAP.
My dad is definitely out of the woods, but I'm pretty
sure he won't be able to survive another attack like
this if it happens. ...
I'm exhausted. I got maybe 4 hours of sleep last night, and that was sharing a hospital bed with Karen.
She's little, but both of us in one twin bed was tight
sleeping quarters.
I should be coming home on Tuesday or Wednesday.
I love you all.
Keep 'em coming, yo.
Oh, whatEVER.
All best to Kaffy, and her dad- You’re in our prayers.