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Tuesday, October 11, 2005
Another image completely blown to hell
You'd think that being in the biz I'm in, I'd be a lot more jaded and not surprised about the stuff I learn about people and their natures. But sadly, that is not the case, and I'm continously stunned.

Snidge and I spent a good portion of tonight pouring through a message board a couple friends of mine (and hers, sort of) frequent. We did this because she has somewhat of a vested interest, although after what we saw tonight? I doubt that's going to be a problem for much longer, because holy fucking shit, Batman! The crap that the one friend spewed absolutely horrified me. (The other one wasn't anywhere near as bad, but then, that friend and I have talked about his views before, so I wasn't quite as shocked. Also, he wasn't a complete jackass when espousing his views, either.) The topic they were discussing? Gay fostering.

In case I have to spell it out for y'all, here's what I think about it. Me, and me alone:

1. Homosexuality is biological.
2. There are exceptions, such as gross sexual abuse or a domineering fucktard parent that may possibly affect a person's sexuality, but they're not the rule.
3. Homosexuals do NOT wake up one day and decide, "Mmmmmmmm, sucking d!ck/eating pie sounds like fun. I think I'm going to try that today."
4. Homosexuals do NOT pass "gay cooties" to anyone, not even in prison.
5. Homosexuality in prison is NOT homosexuality, but rather an exercise in dominance and control about 95 percent* of the time.
6. It is NOT anybody's business what anyone else is doing in their bedrooms, kitchens or attics.
7. Ergo, since there's no such thing as gay cooties, there is no reason on this Godforsaken earth that a foster child should not be given to a couple who can provide him or her the love and security s/he desperately needs, be they straight, gay or asexual. Period.

My friend, in the meantime, said on this board that, among other things, he would support legislation that would make it tougher for couples to divorce when there's children involved. Now, the guy has been divorced with children already, so I can appreciate where he's going with that. However, he himself describes his current marriage as a "nightmare" a goodly portion of the time, complete with yelling and screaming and all kinds of nonsense unbecoming to a family unit. So how is having your children exposed to that kind of behavior any better than having them raised by gay people? Seriously, can someone reasonably explain that to me? (And if you're going to, have your sources ready, because "It's just WRONG" is NOT an answer.)

I'll tell you what: If you're hellbent on doing a background check on a potential trick? Get their e-mail handles and then look them up on as many BBSs as you can find. THAT'S where you'll learn the most.
Posted by Broad2:03 AM
Thursday, October 06, 2005
Ah-hah! (Said in my best Nelson voice)
Patty caved. All's well with the world.

Thanks to Mac again for spreading the good news.
Posted by Broad2:09 PM
Das in Effe(xor)
And thank God for Cipro, because man! is it nice not to piss fire. Just as good? A doctor who gives you a scrip with refills.

Yeah, I'm still prone to UTIs. Nothing's changed.

Alice over at finslippy posted the other day about weaning off her brain meds, which happen to be Effexor, just like I take. And lots of people wrote to comment that "weaning good, cold-turkey bad," especially with Effexor, which apparently has a hellacious withdrawal. "Apparently," I say? Well, I'm going to let y'all in on a little secret: I've never experienced it. That's not to say people don't, because obviously they do, or there wouldn't be board upon board talking about the "head sloshing" and other awfulness. I just don't have it. In fact, I can go a few days where I forget to take it, and I'm all right. Now, if I don't take it for longer than, say, a week, I start getting monster-crabby and more anxiety-ridden, but nothing seriously painful. I wonder what kind of freak that makes me? It always scares me, though, when people focus only on the withdrawal and thus judge the medicine by that and not its merits; if it weren't for Effexor, I don't know what would've become of me after Dad died. Or like B-Dubs when I saw him on the 4th of July and he asked what meds I was taking now (full disclosure: He and I are both ADHD, and we've both done the whole Ritalin/Adderall/Concerta gig). When I told him Effexor, he was like, "Oh," in that "Wow, you're seriously fucked up if you're on THAT" kind of way. And I was thinking, "Yeah, and you were on Haldol and Risperidol when you were coming down from your bullshit. What the fuck?" Anyway, my doctor says I can stay on it forever if I like, and with my propensity for anxiety and paranoia, I don't see any particular reason to ever come off.

Speaking of the gene-pool, got a call from the detective today: He's setting up an appointment to talk to Crackhead in jail Friday. This ought to be good.
Posted by Broad2:43 AM
Wednesday, October 05, 2005
So proud to be a Hoosier
The Republican geniuses in the Indiana gubmint are huffing the glue again, this time trying to regulate reproductive rights by banning gays and single people from pursuing in-vitro and other forms of reproduction not involving sex. Lookit. Now, interestingly enough, the bill's not up on Patty's Web site. Nevertheless, how's about we let Patty -- and all the other legislators, for that matter -- know that that ain't right?

You got your pick of the litter here: Lookit. And here's where you find Patty:

Patricia Miller
Indiana State Senator, District 32

200 W. Washington Street
Indianapolis, IN 46204

(317) 232-9400
(800) 382-9467

And? The woman has a freakin' mullet. What does THAT tell you?

[Ganked from the always lovely Mac.]
Posted by Broad1:48 PM
Monday, September 12, 2005
Ain’t no smilin’ faces lyin’ to the races
I've been informed by a certain wad that I need to be updating more often. Sorry -- long week, sort of.

Last year, I'd wanted to post the whole "where I was when the planes hit on Sept. 11" like many in the blogosphere were doing, but I didn't. Can't remember why -- perhaps it was because by the time the day came and went, I didn't want to look like a tool posting it after "the day." Anyway, I was covering a 9/11 ceremony at our County Government Complex Friday when one of the commanders for one of the Legion posts asked participants if they remember where they were when it happened.

I remember it like it was yesterday ...
Posted by Broad12:18 AM
Sunday, September 04, 2005
Just … ouch
After the day I had and then reading this? In total tears.

Lookit.

Be sure to read the whole thing, and then feel free to carry on the conversation in the comments if you like.
Posted by Broad2:28 AM
Sunday, August 28, 2005
Reading on Sunday morning
She and I have been talking about injecting new blood in the 'rolls, so I was perusing and I came across this: Lookit.

I can think of several people off the top of my head who won't appreciate a word this woman has to say, but I say "Read it, anyway," and then try real hard. She done put a fine point on it that even the biggest blockhead can understand.
Posted by Broad2:35 PM
Wednesday, July 06, 2005
The end is nigh
Judy Miller's taking one for the team, while Matt Cooper gets spared. Lookit.
Posted by Broad6:48 PM
Friday, July 01, 2005
Did I say “pussy?” I think what I REALLY meant was …
FUCKING pussy: Below you'll find what ol' Normy Pearlstine, chief girl at Time Inc., had to say about his bending over for the courts and giving up Matt Cooper's notes.

"'I tend to be one who temporizes and doesn't make a decision before I have to,' " Mr. Pearlstine said." Translation: "I didn't know what to do until Horgan said he might level even steeper fines than 1G a day. Then it all came to me."

[Via Gawker]
Posted by Broad3:01 PM
Thursday, June 30, 2005
Time caves to government pressure, hangs all reporters out to dry
Lookit

[Via Gawker]

Pussies.

[UPDATE: And for censorship hatas, here's one for the college books from Romenesko: Lookit]
Posted by Broad1:01 PM
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
Blog rules 101
Found this over at this dude Uncle Bob's, who I'd never read but apparently got dooced. I really, really dig it, so read it and learn.

[Via the lovely Zoot, whose husband really didn't shave off all his body hair.]
Posted by Broad4:33 AM
Monday, June 27, 2005
Today, my job just became a lot scarier
Here it is, folks -- the end of a free press as we know it: Lookit.
Posted by Broad2:59 PM
Tuesday, June 14, 2005
The hed on one of my news thingys today reads
JACKSON ENDING SLEEPOVERS IN HIS ROOM.


Shut-UP! Seriously!?!?
Posted by Broad5:15 PM • (0) Trackbacks
Thursday, June 09, 2005
Finally the tables are starting to turn …
Horked from Mac, this needs no 'splainin': Lookit.

If our lefty leaders ain't going to get their asses in gear and jump on this tidbit, then perhaps we out here in the 'sphere need do it from the ground up. I mean, I'm all about pointing out that Perkins is a racist jackass. How about y'all!?

Then again -- and I'm picking this up after finishing a story, so you're not seeing things -- I wonder how much the uber-right has been able to infiltrate the African-American community.
Posted by Broad6:24 PM • (0) Trackbacks
Friday, May 27, 2005
Always check the life span
Leave it to Oprah to get me all teary eyed and shit tonight -- did y'all see it today? She featured Carolyn Thomas, the woman who's ex pigfucker murdered her mother and then shot off half her face. By some miracle, she lived to tell the tale and is currently going through a ton of reconstructive surgery to restore something resembling a face. The part that got me? When the EMT who saved her life by digging bone and tissue out of the wound so she could breathe came out to meet her. That was rough. Also really upsetting is the fact that many of her friends abandoned her because ultimately, they can't deal with the severity of her injuries. God, we humans are a crappy bunch, ain't it?

So. I started writing a month or so ago about a breakfast talk I covered; it was sponsored by the Lake County Sheriff's Department, and it was all about woman beating from a recovering woman beater's POV. Waymon Brown is the guy's name -- he's out of Ft. Wayne, and he was a phenomenal speaker if you ever need someone to cover the topic. Anyway, among all the things he said, this one thing stuck out for me:
When a woman stays in an abusive relationship, the question is NEVER why she stays, because there are a million logical reasons why. The question is, 'Why does he beat her?'

I know -- simple, right? But how profound is that? Totally blew me away, because I sure as hell never looked at it like that. But I don't think I've ever heard truer words about the subject.

Now that I've totally ruined your buzz, remind me to tell you about how I discovered today that peanut butter does in fact go bad after awhile. I'd tell you tonight, but I (finally) finished giving birth to that 68 (!!) inch story I've been working on all week. Lump that in with the 30-incher with which I gave Tara a heart attack by turning in today and two dailies, and this Broad needs to pass out.
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It is the job of a good person to be honest. To be self-aware. To deliberately explore the fault lines of your character and try desperately to not inflict suffering in this strange, ghost-ridden world of worked and fabricated objects. Sometimes the jobs of writer and good person coincide. But more often they don’t. There are way more writers in the world than there are good people.

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Typelogic says I'm an INFP.
Check my weekly astrological groove here.

Give it to me, baby.

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